Who are those girls?!!!

Who are those girls with hair so long and nails well kept.
As if they do mani's and pedi's every other week?
With legs so long and skin so smooth (oh how i wish).
Their make-up in order and shoes to match their expensive hand bags.
As if they have their very own David Tlale's to take care of their wardrobes and give them private one-on-one fashion tips.
Who are those girls with tummies so flat and bodies to die for?
Like they just walked out of a fashion magazine or photo shoot.
They smell so fresh, a different fragrance every other day.
From a distance you can feel their presence no matter how hard you try ignore them.
The type who make a naturally secure woman feel a bit uneasy and unsure.
They walk with their heads held high, their posture intact, you cant miss their high levels of confidence.
Who are those girls? Its like they make the world go round, men go wild and other girls go bitter!
Weapons of mass destruction.
They don't seem to struggle or suffer before they GET.
Its like everything comes their way so easily.
Job or no job, they are always loaded! The type who make men wanna shower them with different things, all that they want, they don't even have to beg, they got them under their spell. They suck them dry but still got them coming back, with more to offer.
Its like they went to school for this. Yeah they got it all figured out.
Nails done, hair done, everything did, they say.
They will be the end of our fellow brothers. The end of us all.
Who are these girls? How do they do it?!!!

As I approach 30....!!

As I approach 30 a lot of things seem to change. They say change is good, but sometimes I wonder, is it really?! Why do we always say the good OLD days then? I wont lie, I miss my childhood days, my high school days and of course my varsity days. And every year on my birthday I get excited, naturally, because growing up we get accustomed to the fact that birthdays are to be celebrated. In actual fact though, deep inside I'm not really celebrating because in my mind, there is this voice, nagging me, tormenting me and constantly and successfully reminding me that I'm approaching 30. And as I approach my 30's, I look back and remember the dreams and ambitions I had while growing up. How I used to think that all I needed was to finish my schooling and everything would be a walk in the park, that I'd have the ticket to the good life! A mansion in the burbs, a car or two, 3 even! Adorable kids and a hubby. With the best clothes, shoes and handbags that money can buy. The kinda ones they got in Hollywood or wherever it is those TV celebs we aspire to do their shopping sprees. OK, now snapping outta it and getting back to reality, I realize life is definitely not any easier nor nicer. I'm done with school and I'm still here, still the same as I was a few years back except, well, I have that paper called a degree certificate and well I'm now a few years older..... APROACHING 30!!!